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Reasons Why You Don’t Have Your Desired Results

Because I care about YOU much more then you may think…your hopes, your dreams, your desires and your results…I am going to shine some light on the TRUTH that you may have been avoiding. Please be prepared…this is NOT for the light hearted! I only share this with you because I care about the amazing kindred spirit that you actually are. I truly care about that person you’ve always felt you were meant to be, that person who lies underneath that mask toughened by the pain that life brings.

This is exactly why I’ll share with you the cold hard truth. There are 5 reasons why you don’t have your desired results in your life whether it be a healthy and fit body, a deeply passionate and loving relationship, a better family life, owning a business, financial freedom, living your ultimate life, etc.

Reason 1: Not angry enough

You haven’t gotten frustrated, angry or pissed off ENOUGH to change your situation. This means that you haven’t hit your threshold of what you are willing or unwilling to take in your life and therefore you do not have enough leverage on yourself to change. Change is a matter of leverage, not a matter of willpower. When you have leverage on yourself, you easily move towards what you desire.

Reason 2: Staying in your story

We all have stories that we tell ourselves of why we fall short from our goals, why we don’t truly go after our dreams and why we don’t achieve what we want. Your stories are literally killing any potential progress towards your desired results. We become addicted to our stories in order to remain comfortable in what we have become accustomed to. Achievement always lays outside of your comfort zone.

Reason 3: Not truly understanding the problem

I know…I know…You might think you know what the problem is but in all reality, if you knew what the problem was, you would more than likely be able to solve it. As Einstein said, “A problem well stated, is a problem half solved”…so even if YOU THINK you know what your problem is, you’re probably wrong if you haven’t solved it. Often, we need outside perspective to fully understand the problem.

Reason 4: No strategy

Without strategy, you can’t have a winning/successful path. Your results will be inconsistent. When you finally get angry enough to start taking action towards what you want, you will likely end up back sliding or sabotaging your own results. Without a successful strategy to follow, there will be inconsistent action which will lead to inconsistent results. Because there is little or no progress made, you’ll probably end up falling off the wagon. Strategy is key to achieving goals.

Reason 5: No mentor/coach

This is probably the most important reason of all to obtaining your desired results in life. Why? Because a good mentor can help you with all the other 4 reasons. After giving you leverage, removing your stories and offering you perspective, a good coach can help you map out a strategy and hold you accountable. The distinguishing difference between the results of the Tiger Woods of the world and the average Joe is the presence of a good mentor.

Successful people are no better than anybody else. They just do different things which leads them to different results. More importantly, they have the right psychology. In fact, the SECRET to ACHIEVING ANYTHING is 80% psychology. Only 20% is the mechanics on how to achieve it.  Having the right psychology is often the missing link that prevents people from achieving their goals. This is why even though there are gyms in practically every city around the world and whole foods available in every grocery store, a lot of people still struggle with their goal of being slim and fit. The “how” (20% mechanics) is available but the right psychology is not.

A good coach provides you with the right psychology, the very thing that will shift your results in any area of your life.

Does Your Relationship Have An Object Of Contention?

Couples all over the world will celebrate Valentine’s Day this month. For many, this is a time to re-kindle the spark that sometimes gets lost in everyday life. Unfortunately, this is usually not enough to solve deep rooted issues that are bound to re-surface.

Do you ever feel that whenever you and your spouse disagree, the disagreement always comes back to an old topic you’ve discussed again and again? Does it ever seem that every time you argue or fight with your partner, you are really just repeating the same argument you’ve had many times before? Most relationships have one of those – an object of contention. This “broken record” may make you start to wonder if you and your spouse are even compatible.

Do you sometimes feel so burdened with responsibilities and tasks that you lose touch with your spouse? Do you struggle to get your spouse’s attention? These are challenges that every couple faces, especially at times of heavy work and family commitments. At these times, it is easy to feel that you and your spouse are on opposite sides, having differing views on the things that really matter and failing to fulfill each other.

Every couple has at least one frequent object of contention – a topic or area of life where it is difficult to find agreement. In many relationships, the object often refers to one spouse’s outside interest, a hobby, a friendship, a career or a habit that is very important to one of the spouses. In some cases it can become so important that the other spouse begins to feel jealous and will try to compete with it or try to control it.

This happens when your relationship is out of alignment. You and your spouse have lost touch with your priorities, your future, how to spend your time and how to give each other what you really want. When you resolve the object of contention, you and your spouse make decisions in your deeper common interest.

When determining your compatibility with your spouse, it’s essential to understand their top human needs, goals and priorities. No one has ever left someone who understood and fulfilled all of their needs.

When spouses are negotiating without having common goals and priorities, it leads to a deadlock where both are disempowered. By recognizing their common needs and stepping into each other’s shoes, a couple quickly finds greater alignment.

If you have ever felt that life was running your relationship into the ground, there is a series of steps you can take for finding alignment in your relationship. These steps work even without your spouse’s participation or knowledge.

3 things need to happen in order to break the negative pattern of the habitual argument:

1. Align with the needs and wants of your spouse.
2. Align your beliefs around the object of contention.
3. Work with each other’s strengths towards a common goal.

If your relationship has not reached the true love and passion you desire, it is never too late. In fact, why settle for anything less when a lasting relationship that inspires is totally possible for everyone. It starts with a decision and a commitment to create your ultimate relationship.

Want to know how to improve your relationship, reignite love & passion, and avoid separation or divorce?

Life Changing Strategies

Interview:

During this interaction, I shared some powerful strategies on how to change your life by changing your behavior. Since this information can really help propel your life forward, I’m sharing this interview with you.

Here’s a glimpse of what you can expect:

• At minute 1:45 – I reveal something personal about myself that I bet you didn't know.
• At minute 6:48 – You’ll learn how to be more empowered if you've ever felt like a victim in your own life.
• At minute 43:50 – I share the keys on what you need to do in order to achieve more and become more successful.

Do You Have A Millionaire Mindset?

Atlanta, GA – I was invited to a private country club to hang out with millionaires. When you spend time with successful people, you engage your thinking into their way of seeing things. Why do they have more opportunities to earn than most people? Why do they seem to know things most people don’t? What are their best strategies for business? Achieving high levels of financial success is no accident, there is definitely a ‘Millionaire Mindset’. I broke down the best strategies to success and I squeezed the Millionaire Mindset in this two and a half minute video.

The Millionaire Mindset involves a thinking that brings about different actions which creates  success. Before reading further about this mindset, let me ask you one thing: What is your goal?

Expand Your Thinking

If you’re already reading this part, you probably have answered my previous question. What is your goal? That’s a good start. You have something that you want to achieve. It may be just a simple weight loss plan but what’s important is that you have a plan and you’re willing to do it.

But what normal people fail to see and what millionaires already know is that you have to push your goals further. If you want to achieve greater things, you have to think of greater things. That simple weight loss plan may help you shed some weight but you will eventually plateau and might not probably reach your desired weight. You may want to incorporate new methods in your usual routine to get the best results.

You can’t do what you did yesterday and expect today results.

In order for a new result to come about, new thinking and new actions must occur. You have to expand your thinking beyond your current circumstances, beyond what you already know. Hence the old saying, “Think outside the box”.

Your Environment Influences You

By getting outside of your environment, it causes you to think differently.

Being able to hang out in a place where millionaires go and being able to see the things they are used to, can drive your thinking to a new level. Aside from seeing all the tangible proofs of their success, also getting to know the mentality of millionaires will open your thinking further. Immersion causes you to think differently, speeds up your learning and therefore your results.

Get outside your environment, you’ll see things differently. 

Your Mindset Keeps You Where You Are

Your thinking, your mindset keeps you where you are. Until you get out of your own way with your own thinking, you will never attain your desired results.

To really embrace a Millionaire Mindset, you really have to understand the concept of expanded mindset = expanded results. Setting great goals and doing great actions to achieve these great goals will definitely give you great results. How you see things and plan things is one thing. You have to broaden this concept of success in your mind. How you act on these plans is another thing and this will determine your expanded results.

If you always keep within your current circumstances, what’s within your reach; you’re always going to get your circumstances as a result. It’s when you over-extend yourself and reach for more, that’s where all of the rewards are.

Lastly, to fully achieve this Millionaire Mindset and all your great results, I encourage you to surround yourself with people who add value to your life.

Connect with me, I would love to help you change your life. I would love to inspire you to grow beyond your own current circumstances. You are who you surround yourself with.